Confidence 


 Confidence is the key to success, simple principle, but it is 100% true.

 Confidence though, is not easily required, it demands hard work, self love, and a healthy environment. 

 I always mention ways to boost your confidence, and I do that because I know how important confidence is in being a successful gentleman, confidence let other people see you as a more successful, well put, trustworthy, and social person, it is like this aura that effects everyone around you. 

 And it all boils down to self love at first, you need to love yourself before being able to love anyone else, you need to train yourself to deal with your insecurities, and over come them, because at the end of the day we are all humans, it doesn’t matter if there is people more successful or good looking than you, you should use your insecurities to fuel your journey to success and handsomeness.

 Don’t mix confidence with being egotistical though, there is a huge difference between them, and bring confident doesn’t mean you need to be a douchebag, most of the time egoistical people are the ones with huge insecurities, and they keep on trying to convince themselves they are better than others, while you don’t need to be better than others to be confident, you just need to love yourself, and know that is doesn’t matter if you are better than someone or not, you are just happy with who you are. 

 But if you are not happy with who you are, then fix it, I have talked about this in a lot of my blogs, if you feel bad about something then fix it in the right way, just don’t sit there and mourn because you suffer from something, go out there, find a proper long lasting solution, and fix it, so you can feel happier about yourself.

 Remember though acceptance is also a solution, if you can’t find a proper solution for your problem at all, then accept the fact that it is going to stay there, and teach yourself to be fine with it being there, don’t care about it, and live your life like it doesn’t exist. 

 Finally find a way to boost your confidence whenever you are down, for example I listen to music, and go out for a walk, whenever I am feeling a bit down, but there is many other ways, you can go to the gym, you can talk to someone that you know will lift you up, go somewhere new, learn to deal with yourself when you have a lower self esteem, and learn how to boost it, another favorite way of mine is to listen to motivational videos/speeches, it is a great way to let yourself think positively again, and some of these speeches contain amazing facts and truths that can help you become wiser.

 And obviously this is a big big subject, so I couldn’t write everything here, I just tried my best to make a quick summary about it, hopefully I will touch this subject more later on.

 So think positively, love yourself, work hard, and dream big gentleman! 💪 

 Qotd: How do you boost your confidence? ( Music, working out, motivational speeches, etc.. ) 🤔

 And please check my Instagram ( @theyounggentlemanxo) where I post daily about men’s style and lifestyle. 💕😊

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6 Comments Add yours

  1. This was a great post. I ❤️ it! I would definitely have to say that music boosts my confidence. 🤔

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    1. Thanks a lot, and I agree music is one of the best ways out there. 😋

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  2. The Ellynn Inc. says:

    Really love how authentic your posts are 🙂 True to yourself and your style, plus you’re confident about expressing it. Very nice!

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Thanks a lot! I try my best. 💕😊

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  3. Wonderful post with wonderful points. To be able to see what you are lacking and truly look for a way to conquer it is something that many people have a hard time. Maybe in your next post on the subject you could give some examples that have worked for you and others on fixing the things that someone may not be happy when it comes to themselves.
    Keep up the great work.

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    1. Thanks a lot! Surely I will try to include your idea in one of my future posts.

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